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  WHAT JW TYPES DO YOU REMEMBER IN YOUR CONG???

  by ADJUSTMENTS in

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  it seems in most congregations there is always the same personality types of brothers and sisters in each congregation.

  self righteous ones.

  holier than thou, exemplary, with dc/ca parts every year family.

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  The : Lets invite A B but not C. We are going to drink way too much for C. “We don’t wanna stumble anyone” while we get sh*t faced. This happened on several occasions.
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  Christmas - love it or leave it?

  by Xanthippe in

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  2. friends

  i am just watching my neighbours across the road putting up christmas lights while their children run around bursting with excitement.

  i am feeling all christmassy now.

  can't wait for my daughter to come home from uni next weekend so we can go and buy a tree from the garden centre.

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  Love it. This is the first year we are celebrating as a family. We got the tree after Thanksgiving. Decorated it and all. If it wasn’t for our 2 little ones, I doubt the misses and I would go through much effort. I also put up Christmas lights for the first time. I had an elder call and leave a voicemail asking me to call him back. I still haven’t. I think someone saw the lights and turned us in.lol.
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  When Organized Religion Becomes a Cult

  by dazed but not confused in

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  2. current

  i saw this mentioned in a post.

  i thought it deserved a thread of its own.

  i liked how this article reasoned with the reader how a religion can cross over into cult territory very quickly.. "the harm stems from a system that shuns and ostracizes adherents that don't accept their exclusive claims to truth.

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  dazed but not confused

  Me too Clarity, me too.

  Yes yadda yadda, I know there are many JW’s = cult threads. I just liked this article.

  Oubliette – I wont give up. I will just have to be more creative trying to get them to think.
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  When Organized Religion Becomes a Cult

  by dazed but not confused in

  1. social
  2. current

  i saw this mentioned in a post.

  i thought it deserved a thread of its own.

  i liked how this article reasoned with the reader how a religion can cross over into cult territory very quickly.. "the harm stems from a system that shuns and ostracizes adherents that don't accept their exclusive claims to truth.

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  dazed but not confused

  There is a 6 min chilling video at the end of the article.

  I want to share this article so badly with my mom and sister, but sadly, I think it will push them farther away from me.
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  When Organized Religion Becomes a Cult

  by dazed but not confused in

  1. social
  2. current

  i saw this mentioned in a post.

  i thought it deserved a thread of its own.

  i liked how this article reasoned with the reader how a religion can cross over into cult territory very quickly.. "the harm stems from a system that shuns and ostracizes adherents that don't accept their exclusive claims to truth.

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  dazed but not confused

  I saw this mentioned in a post. I thought it deserved a thread of its own. I liked how this article reasoned with the reader how a religion can cross over into cult territory very quickly.

  "The harm stems from a system that shuns and ostracizes adherents that don't accept their exclusive claims to truth. That is where conventional religion becomes a potentially harmful cult. Forcing people to conform by using the subtle threat of social alienation is a form of coercion."

  "Any religious community can become a cult. It's not about how faith is expressed in a community but more importantly how people are treated if they want to leave and disbelieve."

  Full article here:

  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/eliyahu-federman/when-organized-religion-become_b_3996139.html
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  Question

  by Fading Begins in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am sure that this has already been discussed, so maybe someone could direct me to the correct link.

  i just haven't been able to access this site as often as i would like.

  at the meeting tonight (i wasn't there but was told about it), the brothers were told to pack up a "survival kit" with enough provisions to last for six months - water, medications etc.

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  Yes, this same thing happened in my old hall about a year ago when my wife was still attending. It was printed and bound locally. I think the elders were instructed to make their own nonofficial manual based on suggestions from the WTBTS hive mind. She brought it home and I looked through it. I will ask her tomorrow if we still have it. I think I threw it out along with all their other trash I had piled up over the years. Now I wish I kept it.

  Also I remember her telling me they asked all the Bros and Sis to update their personal info – phone numbers and email and home addresses – with their service group overseers. She said it was primarily for the “friends” to have a go bag incase of natural disaster. Also they did mention it would be good to be prepared for the big A, but I do remember her telling me it was primarily for natural disaster preparedness.
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  Strange things happening...

  by DS211 in

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  some strange things are happening.. 1. wife started smoking.

  2. wife agreed that the whole "clean up after armageddon while growing to perfection" thing is all speculation.. 3. as i was going to the meeting tonight (i had a part and kids are sick so she stayed in) she says "do you have to go?"..

  4. when i got home she says " i wanna go out and party..... hmmmmmm.

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  Nice.

  I started smoking cigars once in a while after I left.

  Enjoy the freedom.
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  Strange things happening...

  by DS211 in

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  some strange things are happening.. 1. wife started smoking.

  2. wife agreed that the whole "clean up after armageddon while growing to perfection" thing is all speculation.. 3. as i was going to the meeting tonight (i had a part and kids are sick so she stayed in) she says "do you have to go?"..

  4. when i got home she says " i wanna go out and party..... hmmmmmm.

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  dazed but not confused

  Your wife has gone from complaining that you don’t do “family worship night” often enough to smoking? Just 2 months ago you wrote… Wife is a born in and still very strong in her beliefs, or rather very controlled.

  So what has changed?
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  Dying to Believe

  by Watchtower-Free in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  just saw this and thought i would pass it along .

  its about a young jw who died.

  because of jw blood policy.

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  So sad.
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  24 hour field service marathon ??

  by gingerbread in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  field service for up to twenty-four hours non-stop.... it's a bit of a fad in our area with pioneers - the twenty somethings especially.

  we've heard from other family members and a jw friend that it's a thing in their part of the country as well.. it sounds like a group decides on a day and then piles into a van or suv to 'work' the territory - 12, 18 and even 24 hours.. anyone else hearing of this?.

  ginger.

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  dazed but not confused

  Wow. Not that much, but when i was 17/18 we would go out after meeting till abour 12 or 1 am. We would hit gas stations and truck stops.